Women's Use of Sleep Aids Is on the Rise, but at What Cost to Their Health?

Bonnie Procter, a 39-year old mother of four, was first prescribed a sleep aid by her endocrinologist following a surgery in 2015. “You need to get some sleep so you can heal,” she remembers her doctor telling her. 

At first it was great, Procter says. “I’d take the pill and I’d go to sleep. But before long, I would take it and then wake up after a few hours and not be able to go back to sleep.” Any sleep she did manage to snag was poor quality, and she could feel her mental health deteriorating. “I’d be hysterical with tiredness,” Procter wrote on Facebook of her experience. 

Back to the doctor Procter went, desperate for a solution. More prescriptions, including for a benzodiazepine (a class of sedative drugs that includes Xanax, Klonopin, and Valium), followed. Procter says the cycle continued for years: The meds would work for a time, and then they’d stop. Sleepless nights would lead to more doctors and more meds.

Procter’s sleep-aid flywheel dramatically came to a stop in November of 2022 when medications she was taking—some prescribed for sleep and others for pain-management following a severe accident—had an interaction that landed her in the hospital’s Intensive Care Unit. “I almost died,” Procter says. “After that I was like, ‘No way.’” No more sleep meds; she tapered off her medication and began to seek alternative sleep solutions.

Procter’s story is an extreme version of an all-too-common narrative: Patient needs sleep, patient tries a sleeping pill (maybe prescribed by a doctor, maybe not), patient sees diminishing returns from said sleep aid, stress and anxiety regarding sleep increase, and the cycle continues. 

The urgency and frequency with which people, particularly older and middle-aged women, seek sleep solutions show that they’re aware of just how important sleep is.

“Sleep is necessary to function optimally in every domain of life, both mentally and physically,” says sleep specialist Angela Holliday-Bell, MD. But what they might not realize is that these drugs are little more than Band-Aid solutions—ones that are quick to fall off, at that. 

Over-the-counter and prescription sleep medications may help you fall asleep, says preventative neurologist Kellyann Niotis, MD, but for various reasons, many related to cognitive function, “in the long term, they’re doing more harm than good.” 

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